What I've learned

I've learned a lot reading blogs of different content. I've learned about goals, hopes and dreams. I've learned to appreciate each day and live it to the fullest. I've learned about the heartbreak of an unexpected diagnosis and those willing to travel that road regardless of the destination or outcome.

My niece was offered a chance to end her journey when the Dr suspected the twins had Down Syndrome. The pregnancy had been high risk from the beginning. From 8 weeks to delivery she was on bedrest. Not an easy thing considering she had two other children ages 2 and 1.

She switched Drs and continued the pregnancy. She also refused further diagnostic testing other than ultrasounds. She was willing to take the unplanned trip to Holland. Incidentally her plane was rerouted back to Italy. My great nieces were 8 weeks early but otherwise healthy. Neither one has Down Syndrome and any earlier delay was caused by being premature.

So many women would of cancelled the vacation. Or planned the trip later on, hoping to make it to Italy. A few will decide to go to Holland without a guidebook or day to day itinerary regardless of the ultimate destination. The parents still hope after the diagnosis but the hopes become more relevant and realistic.

I've noticed even though most of the families believe in God they become more spiritual during the unexpected journey. Their faith deepens. No matter how alone they feel they know God is with them and walking this journey with them.

Some go into this new journey to Holland knowing the trip may be cancelled at any time . But each day of the journey is celebrated.

I've learned about strength, hope and joy. And still so much to learn.