My heart has broke for some families because they got their heart set on a child that was photolisted just to find out the child was never eligible for adoption in the first place. Why was a Russian toddler photolisted on an Adoption Ministries website illegally? Before the ban on Russian Adoption for American families it was illegal to photolist Russian children on 3rd party International websites such as RR.
The child did have a special need and was a toddler. And since she was below the age of 5 and the severity of the SN was not great she was not available for outside (international) adoption but was photolisted on an American 3rd party website. The perspective adopting family saved and raised money to adopt this child. They committed to the child on the adoption Ministries website. They spent months completing the paperwork ,completely convinced that their daughter would be home soon. They received their travel dates and at their official referrel learned that the child they wanted was not available and had been adopted by a Russian family. The family was presented with some other children and did adopt.
It was a sad situation full of lies and deceit, caused by an agency that's supposed to help. An agency that swears they care. In the long run things did work out for 2 kids and their lives are better.
It's a shame because of situations like this, the abuse and the stories on the news , Americans can no longer adopt Russian children. Thousands of kids are now denied homes and life outside of institutions because of deceitful behaviour.
Lies, Lies and yet more lies.
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Debating whether or not to end this subject and just approach it later again as the stories unfold..16 post already or just go to 20 entries.
****My next topic is about Physician Assisted Suicide, Dr Philip Niske, Kevorkian and Dignitas. The use of nembutal and should PAS be more readily available?
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